The Big “Approaching Women” Myth

Today, I’m going to talk about something that’s very important.

I’m about to expose the biggest LIE you can tell yourself about meeting and approaching women women.

Seriously, this lie can keep you from ever achieving the kind of turbo-charged social life you fantasize about.

You prepared for it?

Okay, here it comes…

The biggest lie you can tell yourself is that you need to have assured things in place BEFORE you meet and approach women.

You know what I mean.

“All I need to do is lose 50 pounds, AND THEN I’ll go out and meet some girls on adultfrienedfinder.”

“If I can just hold off until I get a good new car, THEN I’ll be able to meet women.”

“I can’t meet any girls until I am done with school.”

“I don’t want to meet any women until I’m more financially secure and I will buy best weighted keyboards 88 keys…”

There are a million and one different examples of excuses we make NOT to meet and approach women.

This is because we think we need to achieve something before women will be attracted to us…


Because we don’t feel we’ll personally be ready to get a grip with women until we get these things sorted out.

But this is all a MYTH.

All you’re doing when you think this way is giving you an excuse to STAY ALONE.

You’re handing yourself an “out.”

What happens when you make yourself think you need to “accomplish” something before you need to meet women is this…

You’re altering the focus of your awareness!

Instead of focusing on what you really want (women), you focus on distractions and what’s getting in your way to a successful love life.

And when you do that, you in no way actually GET what you want.

Make sense?

So you need to STOP thinking that getting a girlfriend, or a wife, or a beautiful woman to take part in your life really REQUIRES anything but a enthusiasm to go out and meet them.

When you sit down and say to yourself: “I don’t want to wait anymore. I’m going to go out and meet and approach a girl RIGHT NOW!” You’re focusing on an objective.

And when you center on a objective you can ACHIEVE that goal.


So don’t let yourself create distractions from what you really want.


And if you want the ultimate power and choice to meet any woman you desire and go out on more dates than you ever thought possible…

You MUST read The Art Of Approaching.

You won’t find a better guide to shepherd you to achieving success with the ladies.

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